ReD's Official Coming and Going Thread

ReD

Sex & Death Everywhere
Inactive
Aug 4, 2013
6,766
Bat Country
Current Status:
10/21/15:

I am extending my hiatus.

A friend of mine died last week, which was the original reason for my hiatus. She was not married, her parents are dead, and she has no extended family.

They still haven't released her body. There's no funeral plans.

I haven't even had time to mourn because I have three huge projects due in the next few hours. My group project, neither of my partners have responded.

I keep waking up in the middle of the night or hours before my alarm goes off with my heart tracing.

My stomach is acting up. I am, quite literally, starving. I'm starving from eating food.

I'm going to the doctors again. And again. And again.
Three times in the next week.

I'm lurking around SA because it's nice to randomly chat, but things are hard. I really appreciate everyone here, and I want to be there, and be helpful, but it's really hard when I can't care for myself right now.

Please forgive me if I sound short or cross with everyone--it's definitely not my intention. I am just not in good place.

I don't normally post these kind of things here, but I feel like I've been dropping the ball on a lot of things lately, and I want to let you all know why. It's not because I don't care--I'm just caring about too much right now.

Expected Return:
10/26/15
 

ReD

Sex & Death Everywhere
Inactive
Aug 4, 2013
6,766
Bat Country
Thank you Emy ahhhh

I wish i had a good news update but my hiatus is extending. Even though the mass is scheduled for tomorrow, there's still no announcements on the actual funeral.

My health is very bad. I might be getting surgery.
 

ReD

Sex & Death Everywhere
Inactive
Aug 4, 2013
6,766
Bat Country
Current Status:
12/08/15:

After what feels like the longest two months of the year, I am finally in a place where I can tentatively announce a return from my hiatus.

No one is allowed to die, attempt to die, or get me sick in the next week >:/

When I return, I will be making a thread and tagging people to see who is still interested in threading.

Expected Return:

I expect to return to normal posting duties Tuesday, December 15, 2015.
 

ReD

Sex & Death Everywhere
Inactive
Aug 4, 2013
6,766
Bat Country
Current Status:
12/15/15:

Returning.
I am having a lot of problems loading SA post-transfer, so my posts will be slow,
but I will be posting again. :)

Expected Return:

I expect to return to normal posting duties today, Tuesday, December 15, 2015.
 

ReD

Sex & Death Everywhere
Inactive
Aug 4, 2013
6,766
Bat Country
Current Status:
1/17/16: This is sort of a reverse hiatus.

I returned from my hiatus on the 15th. I have more time and a manageable workload, so I will be posting regularly. I will be available for any questions you might have, so please don't hesitate to shoot me a PM if you need anything-I am happy to help!

While I will lurk in the cbox and help with any questions that arise, I will be otherwise taking a cbox hiatus. Please forgive me if I pop in to answer questions and then otherwise fall silent.

Expected Return:
1/24/16

I'll be back in the cbox in a week.
 

ReD

Sex & Death Everywhere
Inactive
Aug 4, 2013
6,766
Bat Country
Current Status:
1/27/16:
I'm heading out of town unexpectedly for a few days. I'll be on kind of randomly, but I'm not sure how frequently or if I'll be posting.

Expected Return:
2/01/16

I'll be getting home sunday night or monday afternoon, so assume posts will be from me on Monday! :)