What's a friend?

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Arthur had never been very good at making friends. He had acquaintances. He was alright at networking, communicating with his clients and going to dinners with his fellows at his Inn and whatnot, but he had never been good at friends. This wasn't something that bothered him very much. He worked best alone, after all, and never found it important to make any friends.

For the 5 years at the island, he had generally worked fine without having many friends outside of work. However, when he had accepted Theo into his firm, the boy seemed to make it his own personal goal to get Arthur to make more friends. Recently. he gave in to Theo's antics and signed up for a networking app. On there he had met several people. One, similar to him in age, had offered to meet up.

He had Sundays off usually, though he tends to spend them at the office as well. Not today, though. Here he was, sitting in a cafe, his cane leaning against his chair, waiting for his potential friend to show up. He hadn’t even ordered anything. Is this how normal people made friends? He suspected that it was not the case, but at this point all he could do was wait.

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Valli had, if he was really counting, one friend. That was Gask. Really, just Gask. Valli had family, but family he saw only twice a year. He had work associates--boy he had a lot of those--but none of those were friends.

Friends were their own very separate thing.

But living with Gask had helped him realize that, as they said, no man was an island. He needed friends. He needed a life outside of work. He needed... anything.

So he'd gone looking for friends. He'd gone on a site--a lot like a dating site, only legitimately for friends--and then searched around for too many hours. It had been hard to find people around his age. It had been even harder to find people his age who actually looked his age. More than half of them didn't look a day over twenty-two, which was a very special kind of awkward.

Arthur seemed nice. He met Valli's (very sparse) list of requirements. And really, what else could he ask for? So Valli had dressed up pretty normally (maybe a bit too nicely for a casual friend meeting), and then he'd headed to the cafe.

At least Arthur was easy to spot.

Valli headed straight for him, stopping beside the table and offering his hand.

"Arthur, right? I'm Valli," he said, trying his hardest to sound casual and not at all nervous.
 

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Arthur, owing mostly to boredom, had spotted Valli as soon as he came through the door. He didn't make eye contact, however, until Valli had came to his table and offered a handshake.

Handshakes. He can deal with those, though generally he preferred his left hand. Still, he had enough practice so that his tremor was barely noticeable when he did use his right. First impressions were important in his line of work, and most of those began with a handshake or a greeting.

Well, he was not at work now. But his habits stuck more than he would like.

Taking in his potential new friend, Arthur didn't find much that was out of the ordinary with him. Tall, blond, well-groomed. Valli looked like a nice person. Or at least a normal person. The one thing that was interesting was the low amount of guilt, though that likely meant he was just more well-adjusted than Arthur. Of course, appearances can be deceiving, and he wasn't the biggest fan of judging by appearances, but he'd at least like to think that he's making friends with a decent person.

"Yes. Nice to meet you, Valli," Arthur said, trying to keep his tone casual. He tended to fall into the habit of professionalisms when out of work, but he's working on it, or at least he's telling himself that. "Do you want anything to drink? A coffee?"
 
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Normal. That was what he was trying for. Nice and normal. He already had the appearance down pat (Valli more or less permanently looked like he was a well put together man, not quite showing his age but still a good deal older than most of the island), but mentally? Not so much. Mentally he was thinking about the nine million ways the whole situation could go wrong.

Only Arthur looked fairly normal. He looked well put together. And a part of Valli liked to think that Arthur looked about as nervous as he felt.

But being realistic, he suspected that he was significantly more nervous than Arthur.

"Coffee sounds nice," he said. "I normally get one before work, just to make a habit of it." Habits were helpful. They provided grounding. And just like that he was slipping right back into his work mindset.

Arthur wasn't a patient, and he had to mentally separate himself.

"I suppose I should have introduced myself as Valgarður. I normally just go with Valli to simplify things, but..."

Well, Valli hadn't specified where he was from, and he had no idea where Arthur was actually from, but with a name like Nyström it was a safe bet he could manage the ð. "Nyström is Swedish?"
 

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"Two coffees, please," Arthur said, to the young waiter who had been near their table. He personally didn't drink coffee, but it didn't hurt to have one once in a while. He tended to stray away from anything even remotely addictive, caffeine included.

Valgarður. Definitely Nordic, though he couldn't tell whether it's Norwegian or Icelandic. He was tempted to guess the former - a higher population means that he hag a higher statistical chance to get it right, but it would probably be easier if he just asked. He knew, though, that some people on the island didn't like to speak about their background. Would it be intrusive?

How long had it been since he's had a normal conversation lasting longer than a minute that's not about his work with somebody? He wasn't surprised to know that he didn't recall.

"Would you prefer to be called Valgarður or Valli?" Arthur asked. He was lucky, personally, to have a common first name. Less explaining, less hassle. "Yes, Nyström is Swedish. I left Sweden when I was young, though."
 

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"Either or is fine," Valli said. "Whichever is more comfortable." He'd gone by Valli for so long that he really didn't mind it, and until recently he'd probably have said Valli. Gask calling him Valgarður had warmed him to the name again.

"I mostly went by Valli until recently. When I was young, I was bothered by how badly people would butcher it, but I got used to it with time. I have to admit I'm similar enough - I was born in Iceland, but I moved here almost immediately. I can't say I have a significant connection to the culture or anything."

Which was unfortunate. Maybe he should have done more with that.

"It's something I'm looking into, though."
 

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"I think I'll stay with Valgarður," Arthur answered. He knew that some people appreciated the extra effort, and he personally didn't find the pronunciation too difficult. His surname was the same. He always appreciated those people who cared enough to add the umlaut to his surname.

"I suppose I'm lucky to have a first name that's very difficult to pronounce in correctly," he responded. It takes a very special person to mispronounce Arthur. "It's normal amongst expats who left their home countries young to feel a disconnect to their culture. You could always return to visit. It's never too late."

He wondered whether he had been too formal. He was told that his speech patterns can give people that impression. Hopefully Valgarður didn't mind.
 

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Valli offered a shrug to the mention of returning home.

"I don't think I'd visit at all, even given the choice," Valli admitted, feeling the worst of his nerves ease as the coffees arrived. This was normal. A routine. Something that people did every day, and he'd have to get used to doing. "I have no family there that I'm aware of, and I'm not terribly close to my family here on the island. If I was going to pick a vacation, I'd..."

Valli paused for a moment, clearly considering where he'd vacation. He could think of a few places for Gask, but picking one for himself seemed like a significantly more difficult proposition.

"Asgard, maybe. And probably find it awful."
 

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"Asgard?" Arthur asked, tilting his head to the side. A demigod, then, like him. Well, sort of like him. He wasn't surprised, not in the normal sense of the word. Not many people here explicitly advertised who they were. There were people that you could tell from their appearance, of course, but most you can't.

He took his coffee and blew on it, taking a sip. It was almost hot enough to burn his tongue, but he didn't let that show.

"Tyr is my grandfather," he confessed, running a hand through his hair to push it away from his face. Not something that he told to everybody, but having something in common helped people get closer to each other. "My father was a demigod. Asgard... maybe I would visit sometime. But only for the sake of him."
 

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Tyr was? Valli blinked, the surprise no doubt showing on his face before being replaced by very pleasant surprise.

"One of the few who isn't a relative then," Valli said. "It's on my mother's side, but my grandfather was Baldur. I've never met him, I'm afraid, and I can't say I inherited much from him. My mother had a bit more of him in her, but by the time they reached me they'd all been watered down."

His mother? Immortal. And permanently in her mid-twenties. Valli? A reasonably well kept forty year old man. He'd outaged his own mother.

"I have to admit I picked out your profile because we were around the same age, and there was a shared background, but I didn't realize it was quite so shared."
 
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